Is astarion gay

So no, he is not written as gay, he is just not the typical macho man that societies expect a male to be, which I guess makes people think he is gay (since everything that is less than "male" is viewed as "female").

So, Is Astarion gay? Austaion is not gay, he is a pan sexual but in-game story indicates a strong preference for males. Pansexuality is the attraction to a person of any sex or gender, including those outside the gender binary.